Jan Kerouac in Relationships
Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Jan Kerouac is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Jan Kerouac is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.
Kerouac gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Jan Kerouac makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Jan Kerouac needs close relationships with people outside of her physical family.
Jan has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Kerouac cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Jan Kerouac often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Jan Kerouac is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Jan Kerouac cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Kerouac's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Jan at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Jan Kerouac is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.
Jan Kerouac may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Jan desires.
For Jan Kerouac, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Jan values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Jan Kerouac needs to beware of.
Jan Kerouac has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Jan frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Kerouac can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Kerouac's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 11th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 2nd house
Venus Square Neptune
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