Matthew Vaughn approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Matthew's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Matthew Vaughn comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Matthew Vaughn - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Matthew Vaughn" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Matthew a little better. This page describes the disguise Vaughn wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Matthew Vaughn appears gentle and soft, and he acts rather reserved with others until he knows them well and feels it is safe to be open with them. Matthew has a strong need for emotional security and a sense of belonging, and is deeply attached to the past: his heritage, roots, family, cherished friends, familiar places, etc. Making radical changes or moves away from what is familiar and safe can be very painful and difficult for him. Vaughn tends to cling to people, memories and possessions of personal or sentimental significance. Having a home, a safe haven, is very important to Vaughn.
Vaughn approaches life emotionally and subjectively and he is sensitive to the emotional atmosphere, the subtle undercurrents of feeling in and around him. Instinctive and non-rational, Matthew Vaughn is often unable to give a clear, simple explanation for his actions. Something either feels right, or it does not.
His emotions and personal loyalties tend to color Matthew's thoughts and opinions. He views life from a very personal perspective and often cannot mentally detach himself from his own personal bias and prejudices. He is apt to be concerned primarily with how something affects him and those dear and close to him, rather than with the principle or the broader social implications. For instance, he may be very patriotic and feel that whatever "my country" does is right without really knowing much about the other nation's policies or point of view. Simply put: if it is good for Matthew and his near and dear ones, then it is good. If it is not good for him and his near and dear ones, it is no good.
He is tenaciously loyal, protective, and supportive of those he cares about, and has a very strong nurturing, paternal nature. Matthew Vaughn empathizes with others and intuitively senses the feelings and needs of other people. Compassionate and sympathetic, he is easily moved by others' pain, and Matthew Vaughn is often the one that others seek out when they need comfort, reassurance, or help.
His moods fluctuate and change frequently and he is sometimes open and sometimes withdrawn emotionally. Matthew Vaughn communicates nonverbally and appreciates a person who can pick up subtle cues and hints, rather than having to make everything explicit.
Matthew never forgets either kindness or unkindness shown to him.
Matthew Vaughn appears to be sweet to other people, and he knows how to use charm, persuasion, and affection rather than more direct (but possibly disagreeable) methods to get his point across. Being overly concerned with appearances and surface beauty is possible; and if so, Matthew Vaughn may also seem vain and narcissistic to others.
Matthew Vaughn has a radiant, winning personality and others see him as a person used to achieving success. Broadminded, Vaughn is willing to give others the benefit of the doubt. He is helpful and tolerant as long as his moral and ethical standards are respected.
Daring and a bit reckless, Matthew Vaughn is not afraid to face danger. Matthew wants to be the biggest, the best, the strongest and the most powerful! Matthew Vaughn has a need to have his influence noted in many directions and a desire to rule over those in his environment.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Cancer Rising
Venus Square Asc.
Asc. Opposition Sun/Jupiter
Asc. Conjunct Mars/Pluto
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