Willem does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Willem Mengelberg would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Willem Mengelberg avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Mengelberg. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Willem Mengelberg has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Mengelberg also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Willem, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Willem Mengelberg tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Willem Mengelberg becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Willem Mengelberg also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Willem Mengelberg expects, and draws out, the best from people and he enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of his emotional generosity, his life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
Although Willem Mengelberg was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Willem's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Willem Mengelberg tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Willem to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Willem Mengelberg may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
In love relationships, Willem Mengelberg is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Willem enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Willem Mengelberg responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.
Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Willem Mengelberg, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Mengelberg and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.
He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Willem Mengelberg appreciates artistic people.
He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Willem Mengelberg is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 6th house
Moon Square Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 3rd house
Venus Conjunct Neptune/Pluto