Mary Welsh Hemingway
challenges and difficulties
Mary has difficulty asserting her will and desires directly and openly. She may also suppress her anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in herself are important tasks for Mary Welsh.
Mary Welsh Hemingway has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Mary limits herself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in herself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Mary Welsh Hemingway difficult to get to know intimately, as Mary Welsh tends to distance herself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Mary Welsh Hemingway has a serious outlook on life and a tendency to dwell on her own flaws as well as those of everyone else. Mary Welsh could be rather reserved with people and may find it difficult to express herself, giving a more negative impression than she intended.
Mary Welsh works quietly to get ahead, but may have to work harder than others to gain recognition for her efforts. Reserved and shy, Mary Welsh Hemingway tends to build a wall between herself and others and she seems to be more receptive to older and mature people.
Mary Welsh Hemingway tends to be somewhat insecure and uncertain about her direction of life. Frequently plagued by doubt and fear, she is inclined to worry a lot. Because Mary Welsh lacks the confidence to fight back, she may allow herself to become the victim of other people.
Mary wants to go her own way and tends to withdraw into herself. She prefers to be alone and tends to cut herself off from other people. Mary Welsh Hemingway could be a bit too serious and conservative.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Mary Welsh Hemingway instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Mary Welsh Hemingway needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Mary Welsh Hemingway is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Mary Welsh Hemingway's growth. Mary Welsh Hemingway needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in trying to strike a balance between Mary Welsh's inner, personal life and her career or involvement with the world at large that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Mary Welsh Hemingway needs to focus attention on her home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The following are specific activities that will support Mary Welsh Hemingway in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Mary Welsh, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Mary Welsh Hemingway should become more aware of the spiritual side of life and its underlying unity by getting involved in charitable activities and opening up her psychic channels. Meditation that develops Mary Welsh's intuitive abilities, as well as learning about the unseen side of life through her own dream experiences or altered states of awareness, can be important steps in Mary's path.
Moreover, musical and artistic or imaginative endeavors will be important to her.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Saturn Opposition Neptune/MC
Saturn Opposition N. Node/MC
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Conjunct Neptune