Melvyn Douglas
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Melvyn Douglas only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Douglas.

Melvyn has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Melvyn Douglas has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Melvyn Douglas to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Melvyn Douglas has a great deal of emotional depth.

Melvyn has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Melvyn Douglas may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Douglas' tie to his mother is very strong and Melvyn Douglas also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.

He is very intuitive and has the ability to make the right decisions guided by his inner feelings. Melvyn Douglas has a sense of honor and pride and is considerate of others. Others respect Douglas and are willing to help him, because he does not act out of petty motives.

His will tends to be a bit weak and he seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Melvyn Douglas thinks that he will fail because of his inadequacies as a person. He keeps his feelings to himself and should guard against depression and pessimism.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Melvyn Douglas enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Melvyn wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Melvyn is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Douglas places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Melvyn Douglas feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Melvyn Douglas shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Melvyn's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Melvyn Douglas also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Melvyn likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

Melvyn likes to feel at one with the whole world and is cordial and warm-hearted in collaborating with others. Public-spirited, Melvyn Douglas seems to be real content and happy only when he is among other people.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 4th house

Moon Conjunct Mars/Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Mars/Saturn

Venus in Aries

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Opposition Mars/N. Node