Martina Stella
in Relationships
She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Martina should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Stella often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Stella's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Martina Stella insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Martina does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Martina Stella feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.
Martina Stella has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Stella also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Martina, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Martina Stella often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Stella actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Martina Stella to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Martina Stella becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Stella can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Martina Stella cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Stella's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Martina at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Martina Stella is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.
Martina Stella may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Martina desires.
Martina Stella loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Stella needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner and she wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to her beloved. Martina Stella also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.
She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Martina's nature and Martina Stella feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Stella. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Martina Stella has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
Martina's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Martina Stella is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Stella is to being left out or unappreciated.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Martina Stella to be able to deeply respect her partner. Martina looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for her. Martina Stella is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.
Martina Stella tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Stella resents authority and likes to be different. Martina Stella may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.
Martina Stella tends to make up her mind quickly in matters of love relationships and affection and may fall in love at first sight. Her expectations about romance can be intense and Martina is inclined to exaggerate and could have arguments about her loved ones.
Martina Stella has a strong desire for harmony and beauty in her surroundings. Very interested in art, she is likely to devote her life to beauty and art. She may pursue a career in cultivating and embellishing the environment.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 6th house
Moon Square Saturn
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 5th house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Conjunct Moon/Uranus
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Mars
Venus Opposition Asc./MC
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