Berry Gordy
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Berry Gordy only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Gordy.

Berry has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Berry Gordy has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Berry Gordy to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Berry Gordy has a great deal of emotional depth.

Berry Gordy may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Gordy has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. Berry Gordy wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Berry is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

Berry Gordy tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Berry Gordy could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Berry that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Berry Gordy craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

In love relationships, Berry Gordy desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Berry "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Gordy can be very demanding of his love partner. Berry Gordy tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Berry Gordy is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Berry is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Berry Gordy feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Berry Gordy loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Gordy may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

He is considerate and compassionate and has an innate understanding of the wants and needs of people in general. Berry Gordy probably will have many pleasant and friendly relationships and his attachment to others is likely to be very deep.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 9th house

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 9th house

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Conjunct Moon/MC