Lapo Elkann
in Relationships

Lapo does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Lapo Elkann would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Lapo Elkann avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Elkann. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

Elkann depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Lapo's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Lapo Elkann may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

Lapo has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Elkann cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Lapo Elkann tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Lapo Elkann could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Lapo that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Lapo Elkann craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Lapo Elkann flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Lapo Elkann feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Lapo Elkann to learn. Lapo Elkann should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Lapo Elkann insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Lapo Elkann is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Lapo Elkann also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Lapo is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Lapo Elkann feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Lapo, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Lapo Elkann tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Elkann's life.

Lapo Elkann has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Lapo frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Elkann can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Elkann's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Lapo Elkann could fall in love with the wrong person. He may be too selfless and have the illusion that his only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.

Chronically discontented, he is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Lapo Elkann tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Lapo has to learn to overcome his fears and general shyness with people.

He is inclined to be rather quiet and humble and go about his business in a very modest way. Feeling sad frequently, Lapo Elkann does not seem to have much interest in becoming involved in love relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Opposition Moon/Neptune

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Saturn/MC