approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Lucille's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Lucille Ball comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Lucille Ball - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Lucille Ball" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Lucille a little better. This page describes the disguise Ball wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Cautious, prudent, and rather self-contained, she is a person who approaches life realistically and who is not inclined to take foolish chances or get carried away by the overly optimistic or idealistic schemes of starry-eyed dreamers. In fact, Lucille Ball frequently has a jaundiced view of such things. She is rather worldly-wise at a fairly young age, even somewhat of a cynic. Often the world does not seem like a safe, friendly place to Ball, and she tends to approach life in a guarded, conservative manner. She is generally calculated and careful, and is rarely spontaneous, fluid, open, and childlike.
She is pragmatic, shrewd, and an excellent strategist, carefully planning her moves for maximum effectiveness and advantage. She is willing to work long and persistently for what she wants and she often does things the hard way. Lucille does not expect others to take care of her and sometimes refuses or simply does not seek any outside help. She is often very ambitious, but quietly so. There is nothing flamboyant or flashy about her approach. She is very responsible, conscientious, and concerned with her duties to others and how she comes across socially - her "rank" so to speak.
To others Lucille Ball seems mature, serious, quiet, reflective, and emotionally detached. Lucille dislikes sloppy sentimentality and will not openly display her feelings, especially the more tender ones. Ball likes to always appear poised and in control; and she hates to show any weakness, vulnerability, or chinks in her armor.
Lucille Ball respects tradition and the time-honored way of doing things, and she feels that there is much to be gained from studying history and also by learning from older, more experienced people. A wise mentor or father is often Ball's guide in life, and she in turn develops a great deal of hard-earned wisdom, which she likes to impart to younger people.
Lucille Ball has a stern, authoritarian, no-nonsense aspect to her personality. She expects much from herself and may not give herself enough leeway to experiment and make mistakes.
She also tends to be rather close-fisted, to save and conserve her money and resources rather than spending or enjoying them. Lucille Ball spends money on things of quality and of lasting value, things which are good investments, but not frivolous, temporary pleasures. There is a bit of the ascetic in her. Lucille exercises great self-discipline and self-control and she can "do without" very well. Her tastes are generally understated and simple.
Though she may have other, more colorful and imaginative sides, the face Ball shows the world is modest and rather conservative.
At times Lucille Ball comes across to others as being rather intense and possibly manipulative or controlling. Or she may get involved in relationships which are "fatal attractions", where she acts out compulsive, intense needs and desires. There is a sexual, seductive quality in Ball's glance or manner that others notice right away. This may either repel them or draw them to Lucille Ball irresistibly.
Others may see Lucille as a cool, reserved and unapproachable person, perhaps as a result of her conservative and stern upbringing. Lucille Ball could feel that no one understands her and tends to isolate herself from others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Pluto Opposition Asc.
Asc. Opposition Sun/Saturn