Luciano Szafir
in Relationships

Luciano does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Luciano Szafir would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

Luciano Szafir avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Szafir. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

Szafir gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Luciano Szafir makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Luciano Szafir needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Luciano Szafir often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

Luciano's emotional life seems to be overly intense and his sexuality is very strong. Luciano Szafir is likely to make many demands of his partner and he has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love him.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Luciano Szafir values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Luciano desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Szafir, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Luciano Szafir appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Luciano Szafir craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Luciano loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Szafir.

Luciano Szafir has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Luciano frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Szafir can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Szafir's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Luciano Szafir to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Szafir may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Luciano Szafir will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 11th house

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon Opposition Venus/Pluto

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Quincunx Pluto