Lord Alfred Douglas
in Relationships

His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Lord Alfred Douglas is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Lord Alfred Douglas is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Lord Alfred Douglas cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Lord Alfred Douglas has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as Alfred takes risks on an impulse or a whim.

Lord Alfred Douglas tends to be emotional inhibited when he is with others and therefore appear rather aloof. Although he may feel lonely, Alfred is inclined to flee from crowds of people and to give the impression of needing protection.

Lord Alfred Douglas possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Lord Alfred Douglas will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Alfred does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Lord Alfred Douglas wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Lord Alfred Douglas appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Lord Alfred Douglas loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Lord Douglas needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner and he wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to his beloved. Lord Alfred Douglas also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.

Lord Alfred Douglas tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Alfred frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Lord Alfred Douglas also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Lord Alfred Douglas to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Lord Douglas may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Lord Alfred Douglas will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

He is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and his relationships tend to be harmonious. Lord Alfred Douglas will probably marry for love and his mate will be a friend to him as well as a lover. The atmosphere in his family life is affectionate and protective.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 5th house

Moon Conjunct Saturn/N. Node

Venus in Libra

Venus in 5th house

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon