Llin Golding
approach to life and appearances

The following is a description of Llinos Golding's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Llin Golding comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Llin Golding - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Llin Golding" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Llinos Golding a little better. This page describes the disguise Baroness Golding wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.

She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Llin Golding will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Llinos Golding has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Llin Golding very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Baroness Golding is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Llin Golding will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Baroness Golding's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.

Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Llin Golding appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.

She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Baroness Golding is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Llinos Golding possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Llin Golding - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Llin Golding does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Llinos Golding.

Others see Llin Golding as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Baroness Golding shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Llin Golding usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.

Baroness Golding may seem unpredictable and unreliable in the way she behaves towards others - or her personal relationships may seem constantly in flux, so that Llin Golding is always a bit off center.

Llin Golding also comes across as an independent sort, someone who does not wish to be controlled or dictated to.

There is an intense and somewhat secretive or guarded quality about Llin Golding which may make people around her distinctly uncomfortable. They may feel that Llinos Golding is constantly monitoring their inner motives, and she probably is. Baroness Golding sees through anything phony, any false pretense - and she may or may not be above using others' Achilles' heels (which she perceives so clearly) against them. At times, however, Llin Golding may be too suspicious and assign negative intentions to innocent people. Llinos Golding should avoid always looking on the dark side.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Libra Rising

Uranus Opposition Asc.

Pluto Square Asc.