challenges and difficulties
Lisa Wilcox often has a sense of longing or homesickness for something she cannot name or specify, and she may sense both a great attraction toward, and fear of, mysticism and parapsychology.
Overcoming feelings of fear, guilt, anxiety, loneliness, or over sensitivity is an important task for Wilcox.
Lisa Wilcox takes her commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. Her strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Wilcox a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but she often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between her and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Lisa Wilcox and it may seem that she is always "working on" her marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Wilcox will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Lisa Wilcox seesaws between playing it safe, and doing something unique and original, between self-control and letting loose, between being a responsible adult and a rebellious adolescent, between what Lisa has to or should do and what her spontaneous impulses tell her to do. All of this creates enormous inner tension as well as friction with people in her environment. Lisa Wilcox may, for instance, bitterly resent government or authority figures who "crush her individuality", yet ignore her obligations and responsibilities, thus ensuring that they will pursue her. Learning to give each side its due is an ongoing challenge for Wilcox.
Basically shy, Wilcox tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing her love for someone. Lisa Wilcox longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but is also inclined to torment herself because of a seeming lack of affection.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Lisa Wilcox instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Lisa Wilcox needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Lisa Wilcox is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Lisa Wilcox's growth. Lisa Wilcox needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in any involvements she has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Lisa Wilcox is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
Lisa Wilcox has a strong desire to break records and set an example for others through her own achievements. Lisa tends to spur others on to improve results and her relationships with others serve to better conditions.
She is gay and cheerful in the company of others and happy to be with them. Lisa Wilcox is fond of telling jokes and is likely to entertain everyone. Her relationships with others tend to be for a common purpose.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Pisces
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Opposition Uranus
Saturn Opposition Venus/Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 11th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus