approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Lisa's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Lisa Wilcox comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Lisa Wilcox - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Lisa Wilcox" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Lisa a little better. This page describes the disguise Wilcox wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Ferociously proud and somewhat vain, Lisa Wilcox likes to be impressive and to be considered special and unique. She is not timid, meek, or self-effacing, and is rarely content with staying in the background or in a subordinate position. She is a natural leader, and does not take orders from others very well. Wilcox must have something of her own, something creative - be it a business, a project, a home or whatever - that she can develop and manage according to her own will and vision. Whatever Lisa does, she does it in a unique, dramatic, individual way. She likes to put her own personal stamp on it.
Lisa Wilcox also has a very strong sense of dignity, self-respect, and personal honor and is deeply offended if someone treats her in a humiliating or dishonorable way. Wilcox will rarely confront the offender - she is too proud to do so - but she will lose her affection and respect for them. Lisa dislikes pettiness and hates to be snubbed or ignored.
Wilcox admires others who are strong individuals like herself. When Lisa Wilcox befriends someone, Wilcox is tremendously loyal, sincere, and willing to go to extraordinary lengths to make that person happy. She is very giving and generous, but her gifts are never anonymous - Lisa expects recognition and appreciation for them. She also expects the intense loyalty that she offers to her dear ones to be reciprocated. However, Lisa Wilcox often has trouble developing relationships with people who are as strong as herself, for she does not really cooperate or share the leading role very easily. If she is not in the leading role, she aspires to be and will compete with the person who is.
Lisa Wilcox has great heart and courage, and people often look to her for strength, encouragement, and affirmation. Lisa always puts her best face forward and rarely allows others to see her hurting, disheartened, or vulnerable. Lisa Wilcox also has a very strong need for love, admiration, appreciation, and praise, although she does not like others to realize just how important it is to her.
Her outlook on life tends to be very personal and rather self-centered. Her own self-expression, self-actualization and self-realization interest Lisa more than anything else. Lisa Wilcox feels that if she does her best where she is, the rest of the world will take care of itself.
Her emotional responses, feelings and prejudices come across to others quite clearly and Lisa Wilcox could come across as rather moody and fickle. On the other hand, she is not impersonal or removed, so people are drawn to confide in her. At times Wilcox may wish she were not so easy to read.
Lisa Wilcox is extremely sensitive to all the impressions and energies around her and at times can be overcome or dominated by more forceful personalities. Learning to establish clear boundaries is important for her, as Lisa Wilcox tends to become enmeshed emotionally and/or psychically with whomever she is with. She may have the chameleon's trait of appearing to become the people or person she is with the most.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon Square Asc.
Neptune Square Asc.