challenges and difficulties
Linda Darnell takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Linda enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Linda Darnell also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Linda Darnell has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Linda limits herself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in herself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Linda Darnell difficult to get to know intimately, as Darnell tends to distance herself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Linda Darnell instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Linda Darnell needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Her natural instinct, especially when under stress, is to passively go along with whatever is easiest, refrain from clearly analyzing or assessing her situation and perhaps even try to escape from seeing her situation clearly by indulging in fantasies, intoxicants, and the like. Dreaminess and impracticality, being unfocused and undefined (at least in certain areas) are ways Linda Darnell copes with stress. Linda Darnell also has trouble setting limits and saying no.
Her development path lies in cultivating discrimination and clarity, becoming more precise, and developing technical and practical skills that will enable Linda Darnell to function more efficiently in the world. Finding a way to be of practical service is also important.
It is deep within herself, as Linda Darnell faces her own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of her life that Linda Darnell keeps hidden from public view where she is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Linda Darnell back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Linda Darnell seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
She enjoys relationships with others who can tune into the spiritual world and Linda Darnell is likely to join groups or associations that sponsor psychics and that explore the connection with karmic influences.
Her relationships with others may be rather unstable and unreliable. With a somewhat negative attitude and weak will, Linda Darnell avoids opposition and escapes her responsibilities. In her relationships she is likely to choose people who are asocial.
Linda Darnell has a very engaging manner in the company of others and her relationships with other people are likely to be harmonious. Some of her connections may prove to be helpful to Linda with her plans.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 1st house
N. Node in Virgo
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Opposition Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Mars/Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/MC