Lauren Jones challenges and difficulties
Lauren Jones takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Lauren enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Lauren Jones also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Lauren Jones does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Lauren Jones must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
She is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Jones is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Lauren Jones is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate her innermost feelings and thoughts.
Her emotional life is likely to be somewhat strained and she has a tendency toward pessimism. Lauren Jones may not feel as close in her relationships to her loved ones as she would like to, and Lauren may find it difficult to give and receive love.
Basically shy, Jones tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing her love for someone. Lauren Jones longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but is also inclined to torment herself because of a seeming lack of affection.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Lauren Jones instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Lauren Jones needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Lauren Jones is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Lauren Jones' growth. Lauren Jones needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Lauren Jones has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Jones will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Moon/MC
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Neptune
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 8th house
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