He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Kyle Petty rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Petty's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Petty may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Kyle difficult to live with. Kyle Petty needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Petty works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Kyle, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. He is likely to be engaged in providing and caring for others in a professional capacity.
Kyle Petty tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Kyle feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Kyle Petty also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Petty to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Kyle Petty may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although Petty gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Kyle Petty to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Kyle Petty has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Petty would react more intensely. Kyle is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Kyle Petty has a great interest in everything and everyone around him and is constantly looking for people with whom he can establish deep inner relationships. His judgments are based on his personal feelings and he has a strong need to be with others.
In a love relationship, Kyle Petty is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Kyle likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Kyle Petty becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Kyle Petty's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Kyle Petty needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Petty finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Petty is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always know many people who love and cherish him. Kyle Petty prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Kyle.
Kyle is a peacemaker - the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness make Kyle Petty very popular.
It is absolutely essential for Kyle Petty not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Kyle tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Kyle Petty will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.
Kyle Petty experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Kyle Petty has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Kyle Petty can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 10th house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 7th house
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Square Pluto