challenges and difficulties
Kevin has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave him feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with his peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Seitzer.
Kevin Seitzer takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Seitzer a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Kevin Seitzer and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Seitzer will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Kevin Seitzer strives and struggles a great deal with his ideals or spiritual aspirations. He may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or he may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, he can never quite divorce himself from his idealistic concerns.
Kevin Seitzer tends to be his own worst enemy, demanding inhuman perfection of himself and harshly criticizing or persecuting himself when he does not measure up. Perhaps circumstances or relationships in his life have been extremely difficult and demanding, reinforcing Kevin's belief that he must struggle alone.
He is capable of tremendous effort and of overcoming great odds and handicaps. Through these efforts Kevin Seitzer develops his power and inner strength. However, Kevin Seitzer should not make life harder than it is. He must give himself permission to let up sometimes, and to realize that he is only human.
His emotional life is likely to be somewhat strained and he has a tendency toward pessimism. Kevin Seitzer may not feel as close in his relationships to his loved ones as he would like to, and Kevin may find it difficult to give and receive love.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Kevin Seitzer instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Kevin Seitzer needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Kevin Seitzer's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Seitzer's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Kevin Seitzer is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Kevin should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Kevin Seitzer can offer the world at large.
It is in his relationships with others that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Kevin Seitzer between acting spontaneously and being true to himself versus modifying himself or his behavior to suit others. Kevin Seitzer seesaws between being inordinately concerned with his self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about him. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Seitzer's task.
Kevin Seitzer tends to have deep bonds with the people he associates with and is likely to encounter some unusual or fated relationships. Some of his contacts could be with very influential people who may be of help to Seitzer in the future.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Quincunx Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Moon/MC
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Conjunct Pluto/Asc.