challenges and difficulties
Costner both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting himself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Kevin, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Kevin Costner is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Costner.
His fears revolve around money and material security, and Kevin Costner works very hard to ensure that his assets are solid. He may be very conservative, even stingy, with his money because he is afraid there will not be enough. He may turn this fear around and become very shrewd about investments and financial matters.
He is a bit skeptical, somewhat irritable, and others may think of Kevin Costner as quarrelsome or nagging. His nervousness seems to stem from his tendency to over-work himself, and Costner should try not to make more demands on others than they are able to handle.
Basically shy, Costner tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing his love for someone. Kevin Costner longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but he is also inclined to torment himself because of a seeming lack of affection.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Kevin Costner instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Kevin Costner needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Kevin Costner has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that he is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Kevin Costner needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, he has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, he may encourage others to depend on him emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Kevin Costner needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Costner's inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Kevin Costner needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
Kevin Costner has a friendly, open and sociable manner and a strong desire to cultivate relationships with warm and congenial people. He may enjoy participating in artistic events and he likes to associate with art lovers.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 2nd house
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Neptune
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Venus