challenges and difficulties
Julia Stiles takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Julia enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Julia Stiles also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She is serious by nature, and may have difficulty making small talk or participating in friendly, personal exchanges.
Julia Stiles tries to be strictly accurate and is critical of people who exaggerate or discuss subjects they really know little about. Stiles withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Julia's silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
Her aspirations and dreams are always tempered by realism and practical considerations. Julia Stiles pursues her aims in a systematic, disciplined and thorough manner, and she is willing to take her time, advancing slowly and steadily toward her goal.
Sometimes Julia Stiles underestimates what is possible, and holds herself back unnecessarily due to a lack of faith or an overly cautious attitude.
Julia Stiles tends to be emotionally shy, sensitive and awkward and may have difficulty expressing her true feelings, even when her affection is real. One of Stiles' parents may have been too strict and unloving, and as a result, Julia may fear close relationships.
Her outlook on life is inclined to be somewhat negative and Julia Stiles tries to avoid relationships and social interaction as much as possible. There is a morose side to Julia's nature that makes her feel that no one cares about her, that life is difficult and perhaps not even worthwhile.
Stiles may find it difficult to relate to people and express her feelings, especially in love relationships. On the hand, Julia Stiles wants relationships yet on the other, she would rather be by herself. A sense of personal inadequacy makes Julia withdraw from others and feel lonely as a result.
She is quite cool and reserved in matters of love relationships and tends to hold back her inclination for love. Somewhat inhibited with regard to relationships, Julia Stiles is inclined to feel that she is better off staying by herself.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Julia Stiles instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Julia Stiles needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Julia Stiles' path lies in her development as an individual, the discovery of her own strengths and joys, the capacity to express her uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Stiles' instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Julia Stiles is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, she may believe that striving to do her personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Julia should let go of this notion. Finding her own center and doing what gives her delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Julia Stiles can offer the world at large.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Julia Stiles between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Julia Stiles seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Stiles' task.
Stiles always looks to establish relationships with groups or associations and has the ability to blend in unobtrusively. Julia Stiles has a way of integrating the needs and feelings of others, while taking into consideration the proceedings of the association.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 3rd house
Jupiter Conjunct Saturn
Saturn Opposition Sun/Venus
Saturn Opposition Sun/MC
Saturn Opposition Venus/Mars
Saturn Opposition Venus/MC
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Moon/Mercury