challenges and difficulties
Judd Nelson has a great capacity for self-denial in the pursuit of a long-range goal. Judd is capable of hard work and persistent labor, but he may lack the capacity for joy and play. Judd Nelson often feels burdened by life's demands and responsibilities, and may envy those who seem to attract what they want in life without a great deal of personal effort.
There is a very judgmental, stern, and uncompromising side of Nelson's that may inhibit him a great deal. Judd Nelson must avoid becoming cumbersome and cynical, or a rather callous, sophisticated adult whose sense of practicality and realism rob him of the playful, imaginative side of life.
Nelson is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Judd Nelson does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Judd Nelson better than being with groups of his own peers.
Judd Nelson has a tendency to feel inadequate, perhaps even unlovable, and he tends to withdraw from others. Consequently, Nelson may feel lonely and out of touch with everyone, and that he has no support from anyone.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Judd Nelson instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Judd Nelson needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Judd stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Judd Nelson has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Judd Nelson feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Judd Nelson calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Judd Nelson needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Judd Nelson to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Judd Nelson has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Judd Nelson has a vivacious and lively manner with a tendency to shock others at times by blurting out blunt comments. Judd loves to be with people, but tends to get overly excited when he is with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Capricorn
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Conjunct Moon/Asc.
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Uranus