José Ferrer
in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, José Ferrer rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Ferrer's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Ferrer may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes José difficult to live with. José Ferrer needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
José Ferrer has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, José sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. José Ferrer is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and José cannot hide his emotions.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. José Ferrer cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Ferrer's motto.
Although José Ferrer was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow José's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
José Ferrer tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for José to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. José Ferrer may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Ferrer can be uncompromising at times. José Ferrer also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.
His emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. He may have a sudden desire to liberate himself from the stress and may release his tension towards women. José Ferrer could also feel lonely and depressed at times.
In love relationships, José Ferrer seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to José, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. José Ferrer supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to José that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. José Ferrer is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Beautiful, elegant, and harmonious surroundings are very important to José Ferrer, and he has an innate sense of style, design, and form. Socially, also, good form and politeness are important to Ferrer and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.
He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. José Ferrer appreciates artistic people.
He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to José's nature and José Ferrer feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Ferrer. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. José Ferrer has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
José has great self-discipline and knows exactly what he can demand of himself. His love relationships are inclined to be connected with a lot of problems and José Ferrer may wish to give up love altogether and retreat to a life of solitude and seclusion.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 1st house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Opposition Sun/Mars
Moon Opposition Saturn/Uranus
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 3rd house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Opposition Saturn/Pluto
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