Jörg Haider
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace-loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Jörg Haider has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Haider is tremendously stubborn and will resist any change which requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Jörg Haider seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones, and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Haider tends to cling and seek to keep others from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness, and touching is essential to Jörg's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Jörg Haider substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Haider gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Jörg Haider makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Jörg Haider needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

Jörg has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Haider cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Jörg Haider tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Jörg feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Jörg Haider also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Haider to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Jörg Haider may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Jörg Haider also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances that. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

Jörg Haider has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open, friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Jörg out for help, sympathy, or advice. Jörg Haider is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he overdoes sometimes his charitableness.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance, and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together, and having many friends of both sexes. Jörg Haider values friendship very highly and is, in fact, more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Jörg desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The roles of "husband" and "wife" in the traditional sense do not appeal to Haider, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Jörg Haider appreciates relationships where his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Jörg Haider craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Jörg loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Haider.

He is big-hearted and openhanded with both his money and affections and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Jörg's nature and Jörg Haider feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Haider. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Jörg Haider has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble, and idealistic.

Jörg Haider is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Fulfillment and harmony in love relationships are likely for Haider because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses those desires honestly.

Sensitive and compassionate, Haider tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Jörg has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that are beyond ego needs and selfishness. Jörg is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Jörg Haider plumbs the depths of which he is capable. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous, or deeply involved with partners who are. Haider will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships which, though difficult, will teach Jörg Haider things about himself and about love that he could learn in no other way. Often Jörg Haider will enter relationships which he knows rationally will be very difficult but, which he nevertheless cannot resist. Jörg Haider needs not berate himself for these "bad" choices; instead he needs to learn what he can from them.

Jörg Haider tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in his life. He is comfortable in talking to someone about his feelings toward them. Jörg Haider also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.

His association with those around he may have a depressing influence on Jörg Haider causing him to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express himself emotionally, he is quite likely to become a loner.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 11th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Square Jupiter

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus Trine Mars

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC

Venus Opposition Saturn/Asc.