Jon Bon Jovi
challenges and difficulties
Jon has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave him feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with his peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Bon Jovi.
His childhood or his relationships with his parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Jon from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Jon Bon Jovi felt deprived in some manner, whether or not he actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of his needs and feelings may typify his early life, at least as Bon Jovi remembers it. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Jon Bon Jovi needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Jon accomplish this.
Jon Bon Jovi tends to be his own worst enemy, demanding inhuman perfection of himself and harshly criticizing or persecuting himself when he does not measure up. Perhaps circumstances or relationships in his life have been extremely difficult and demanding, reinforcing Jon's belief that he must struggle alone.
He is capable of tremendous effort and of overcoming great odds and handicaps. Through these efforts Jon Bon Jovi develops his power and inner strength. However, Jon Bon Jovi should not make life harder than it is. He must give himself permission to let up sometimes, and to realize that he is only human.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jon Bon Jovi instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jon Bon Jovi needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Jon Bon Jovi's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Bon Jovi's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Jon Bon Jovi is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Jon should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Jon Bon Jovi can offer the world at large.
It is in his public life and career that Jon Bon Jovi is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The latter will impact Bon Jovi's reputation and standing in his community or professional circle, as well as how Jon Bon Jovi achieves his important life goals and aspirations.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Jon Bon Jovi back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Bon Jovi's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
Jon has an inspiring, trustworthy and courteous manner, bringing lots of friends and acquaintances with similar interests into his life. His parental home is probably very harmonious and Jon Bon Jovi feels strongly connected with his family.
His conversations with others tend to be lively and productive but could also easily turn into arguments. The subject of Bon Jovi's discussions is likely to be about working on and incorporating educational matters.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Quincunx Pluto
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 10th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Mars
N. Node Opposition Sun/Moon
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Mars