challenges and difficulties
John Duchac both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting himself be known in a deep way does not come easily to John Doe, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. John Doe is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for John Duchac.
It may be difficult for John Doe to play spontaneously or just let his hair down, for he tends to inhibit that side of his by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression he is making.
John Doe may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for he wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged, and recognized as special in some way. Though he may indeed be outstanding, John Doe also needs to learn to relax and enjoy himself more.
Not very adaptable, John Doe tends to be rebellious and fight hard against oppression. This could even lead to violent incidents, so John Doe should try to keep his temper under control. He may have to work extremely hard and may have a lot of responsibilities that he cannot let go.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which John Doe instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction John Doe needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
John Doe has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that he is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, John Doe needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, he has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, he may encourage others to depend on him emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. John Doe needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where John Doe has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. John Duchac will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The specific habits which are likely to hold John Doe back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. John Doe seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
He is a born leader and has the ability to persuade members of a group or association he belongs to. John Duchac always promotes the cultivation of good fellowship and teamwork, insuring success in any plans or joint undertakings he may pursue.
John Duchac always looks to establish relationships with groups or associations and has the ability to blend in unobtrusively. John Doe has a way of integrating others needs and feelings, at the same time realizing and considering the proceedings of the association.
John Doe thinks of others before he thinks of himself and is always ready to lend a helping hand. He is deeply concerned with the community which he lives in, loves his family and relatives and has a strong need to maintain close relationships with them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 5th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto/N. Node
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Opposition Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Sun/Mars
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Mercury
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Venus