John Bettis motivation
Although John Bettis appears to be quite gentle, easy-going and tolerant (as described on the previous page), at heart he is much more willful and passionate, as described below. John Bettis is extremely emotional and he bonds intensely with his loved ones.
Quiet, deep, emotionally complex and intensely private, he is not a person who is easy to get to know and understand. John Bettis is extremely sensitive but disinclined to show it, and he only allows a special few into his inner world. Like a wary animal, he is cautious and mistrustful of those he does not know until "he sniffs them out". He is highly instinctive and intuitive. John Bettis usually has a strong, immediate gut reaction to people, even though he may be unable to clearly articulate why he feels the way he does. His feelings and perceptions go deeper than words.
John Bettis also has a powerful need for deep emotional relationships and he forms very intense love bonds and attachments. He is possessive and often jealous of anyone or anything that he perceives as a threat to his relationship with someone he loves. When John Bettis commits himself to someone or something, he is wholeheartedly devoted and expects complete loyalty in return. John merges with or "marries" the person he loves at a very deep level and therefore separations are extremely painful for him, and often stormy and nasty. When Bettis has been wounded, he is not inclined to turn the other cheek and will retaliate if at all possible. John will most certainly never forget the hurt and he often harbors grievances and resentment for a very long time. Forgiveness does not come easily to him.
Whatever he does, John does with passion and fervor, and he often goes to extremes. Bettis can be hot or cold, but never lukewarm about anything. Bettis can also be very narrow-minded: either he is 100% involved in something or it does not exist for him at all. Rarely is John Bettis emotionally detached and objective. He definitely has a fanatical streak. He is also immensely strong-willed and his tenacity in pursuing his objectives often borders on obsession. He is filled with fierce pride, courage and emotional strength.
John Bettis loves mysteries and is deeply attracted to the hidden, dark, secret side of life. John never takes things at face value and is always probing beneath the surface of people and situations to discover what is really going on. John Bettis tends to be more of a cynic than an idealist.
He is a private person and inclined to withdraw in very public and impersonal social settings. John Bettis prefers to work at home or in a very personal small business.
Bettis invests a lot of his creative energy into his home, family relationships, and inner life.
The above description of John Bettis is so deeply ingrained that he has little objectivity and often little appreciation for other, different ways of approaching life. John Bettis tends to be one-sided. There is little ambiguity in his makeup and he generally knows what he wants and what will make him happy.
He is blessed with abundant optimism, self-confidence and cheerful generosity. His good will and friendliness win him many allies. John Bettis also has grand visions and aspirations, and the desire to succeed in life in a big way. John expects the best, and usually gets it.
He is very receptive and sensitive but has a tendency to over-idealize, making his approach to love relationships, romance or marriage somewhat unrealistic. John Bettis also tends to be a bit absent-minded and naive, leaving himself open for being taken, swindled or lied to.
His vitality is not up to par and his will-power a bit weak, making John Bettis vulnerable to swindle or deceit. His inner discontent and casual attitude could easily lead Bettis into dubious schemes. John should refrain from any activity that seems to be subversive.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Cancer and Sun in Scorpio
Sun in Scorpio
Sun in 4th house
Sun Conjunct Moon
Sun Conjunct Jupiter
Sun Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
Sun Conjunct Mars/Neptune
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