John Bettis
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for John Bettis only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Bettis.

John has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. John Bettis has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for John Bettis to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. John Bettis has a great deal of emotional depth.

John has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, John Bettis may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Bettis' ties to his mother are very strong and John also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.

He is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. John Bettis expects, and draws out, the best from people and he enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of his emotional generosity, his life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

There is another side to John Bettis as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

John Bettis often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Bettis actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for John Bettis to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and John Bettis becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Bettis can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

His health should be good and his recuperative powers are strong. John Bettis is able to express his feelings harmoniously and he considers himself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. He is well liked and his relationships with others are congenial.

John Bettis has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. John looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. John Bettis must learn to deal with his extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.

In love relationships, John Bettis seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to John, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. John Bettis supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to John that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. John Bettis is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

John Bettis loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Bettis needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner and he wants to feel very, very special - like royalty - to his beloved. John Bettis also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or some form of beauty.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 4th house

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Conjunct Sun/Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Venus/Neptune

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 5th house