John Agar
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for John Agar only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Agar.
John has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. John Agar has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for John Agar to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. John Agar has a great deal of emotional depth.
John Agar often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Agar thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. John is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. John Agar has good psychological insight into others.
John Agar feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. John Agar cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Agar's motto.
Although Agar gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable John Agar to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to John Agar and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
John Agar is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
His emotional needs are very important to John Agar and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Agar will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, John Agar gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, John Agar may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone John feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. John Agar idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Agar is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. John Agar prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to John.
John is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes John Agar very popular.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague John Agar and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy John allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for John Agar, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 7th house
Venus Opposition Saturn
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