challenges and difficulties
JoJo Starbuck takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and JoJo enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. JoJo Starbuck also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with her duty, her public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. JoJo Starbuck understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and she is capable of much self-discipline and patience once she sets her sights on a goal.
But JoJo Starbuck is very judgmental and hard on herself if she fails to attain success, and she can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize her efforts.
JoJo Starbuck becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Starbuck is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which JoJo Starbuck instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction JoJo Starbuck needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Starbuck's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
JoJo Starbuck has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that JoJo Starbuck is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Starbuck's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The following are specific activities that will support JoJo Starbuck in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Starbuck, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
She needs to give and receive affection, love and pleasure (primarily with the qualities described previously). JoJo Starbuck has to learn to respond to, appreciate and create beauty, art, harmonious surroundings and relationships. She needs to be aware of aesthetics and to do things in a gracious, pleasing manner. JoJo Starbuck has to start enjoying life, nurturing friendships and cultivating her ability to love and to receive love.
JoJo Starbuck should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems she faces. It is in Starbuck's best interest to act on her own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for her. JoJo Starbuck needs to assert herself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. JoJo needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick herself up, and go! She also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
JoJo Starbuck should develop faith and confidence both in herself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help her. She needs to expand her willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable her to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with her time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit JoJo Starbuck.
JoJo Starbuck seems to have an innate sense of cosmic awareness and is likely to have strong psychical or metaphysical talents. She is inclined to join some parapsychology groups where she may share her unusual experiences with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 10th house
Saturn Square Uranus
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Conjunct Venus
N. Node Conjunct Mars
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Neptune/Pluto