Jackie Martling
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Jackie Martling rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Martling's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Martling may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Jackie difficult to live with. Jackie Martling needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

Jackie has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Jackie Martling may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Martling's ties to his mother are very strong and Jackie also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.

He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Jackie Martling immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Jackie Martling values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Jackie desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Martling, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Jackie Martling appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Jackie is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, Jackie Martling feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Sensitive and compassionate, Martling tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Jackie has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Jackie is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Jackie Martling explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Martling will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Jackie Martling things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Martling will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Jackie Martling needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.

He is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. Jackie Martling has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. Jackie also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 4th house

Moon Conjunct Neptune/Pluto

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Opposition Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mars/Jupiter