approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Jessica's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Jessica Jaymes comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Jessica Jaymes - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Jessica Jaymes" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Jessica a little better. This page describes the disguise Jaymes wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Jessica Jaymes appears gentle and soft, and she acts rather reserved with others until she knows them well and feels it is safe to be open with them. Jessica has a strong need for emotional security and a sense of belonging, and is deeply attached to the past: her heritage, roots, family, cherished friends, familiar places, etc. Making radical changes or moves away from what is familiar and safe can be very painful and difficult for her. Jaymes tends to cling to people, memories and possessions of personal or sentimental significance. Having a home, a safe haven, is very important to Jaymes.
Jaymes approaches life emotionally and subjectively and she is sensitive to the emotional atmosphere, the subtle undercurrents of feeling in and around her. Instinctive and non-rational, Jessica Jaymes is often unable to give a clear, simple explanation for her actions. Something either feels right, or it does not.
Her emotions and personal loyalties tend to color Jessica's thoughts and opinions. She views life from a very personal perspective and often cannot mentally detach herself from her own personal bias and prejudices. She is apt to be concerned primarily with how something affects her and those dear and close to her, rather than with the principle or the broader social implications. For instance, she may be very patriotic and feel that whatever "my country" does is right without really knowing much about the other nation's policies or point of view. Simply put: if it is good for Jessica and her near and dear ones, then it is good. If it is not good for her and her near and dear ones, it is no good.
She is tenaciously loyal, protective, and supportive of those she cares about, and has a very strong nurturing, paternal nature. Jessica Jaymes empathizes with others and intuitively senses the feelings and needs of other people. Compassionate and sympathetic, she is easily moved by others' pain, and Jessica Jaymes is often the one that others seek out when they need comfort, reassurance, or help.
Her moods fluctuate and change frequently and she is sometimes open and sometimes withdrawn emotionally. Jessica Jaymes communicates nonverbally and appreciates a person who can pick up subtle cues and hints, rather than having to make everything explicit.
Jessica never forgets either kindness or unkindness shown to her.
There is an intense and somewhat secretive or guarded quality about Jessica Jaymes which may make people around her distinctly uncomfortable. They may feel that Jessica is constantly monitoring their inner motives, and she probably is. Jaymes sees through anything phony, any false pretense - and she may or may not be above using others' Achilles' heels (which she perceives so clearly) against them. At times, however, Jessica Jaymes may be too suspicious and assign negative intentions to innocent people. Jessica should avoid always looking on the dark side.
She is direct, honest, and to the point - some might say excessively so. However, no one has to guess who Jessica Jaymes is or what she wants - she is pretty much up front. Jessica radiates a refreshing enthusiasm and vigor when she is at her best. She seems to enjoy competition without taking it terribly seriously.
Jessica Jaymes comes across as liberal and open-minded. Anything new, innovative, unusual or off the beaten track arouses her interest. Jaymes infuses her environment with enthusiasm, new life and excitement. Though not intentionally disruptive, Jessica Jaymes does enjoy startling or waking people up a bit.
There is a receptive, elusive quality to Jessica's personality. Jaymes can be difficult to pin down, difficult to know, something of a mystery. At times Jessica Jaymes may feel frustrated because she feels that she is not being perceived very clearly, that she does not make a powerful impression, that she is easily overlooked or discounted. If she does not wish to be "invisible", Jaymes must make some effort to define and clarify - both for herself and for the rest of the world - who Jessica Jaymes is. On the other hand, Jessica Jaymes may purposely create illusions about herself with the intent to deceive - or entertain - others.
Jessica Jaymes is quite excitable and very impatient and ready for a fight in a flash. Because of her impulsive and rash behavior, Jaymes also tends to be accident-prone. Everything Jessica Jaymes does has to be done in a hurry and she expects the same of people in her surroundings.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Pluto Square Asc.
Mars Trine Asc.
Uranus Trine Asc.
Neptune Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Opposition Mars/Uranus