challenges and difficulties
Jenni Dahlman takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Jenni enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Jenni Dahlman also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Her attitude toward religion, philosophy, and politics is very conservative and possibly narrow or rigid. On the one hand, Jenni Dahlman may believe in nothing that is speculative or intangible, requiring proof for any idea presented to her. Each idea is thoroughly and systematically examined. On the other hand, Jenni may tenaciously cling to her grand philosophical or metaphysical beliefs and opinions, refusing to modify them or to be open and receptive to others' insights and perspectives.
Her overall outlook on life is serious, and Jenni Dahlman may feel that life or God will punish her if she does not watch her step!
She is subject to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may have sudden, unexpected consequences and undesirable results. As she lacks the capacity to adapt, Jenni Dahlman may encounter considerable tension in her relationships and is likely to have disputes or even violent fights with others.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jenni Dahlman instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Jenni Dahlman needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Jenni Dahlman is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Jenni Dahlman's growth. Jenni Dahlman needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Jenni Dahlman to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Jenni Dahlman has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 9th house
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Uranus
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 7th house