Roberto Benigni
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Roberto should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Benigni often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Benigni's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Roberto Benigni insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Roberto does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Roberto Benigni feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Roberto Benigni has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Roberto sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Roberto Benigni is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Roberto wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

Roberto Benigni has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Roberto out for help, sympathy or advice. Roberto Benigni is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

There is another side to Roberto Benigni as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Roberto Benigni has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Benigni would react more intensely. Roberto is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

In addition to Roberto's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Roberto Benigni craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Benigni rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Roberto Benigni tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Roberto Benigni could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Roberto that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Roberto Benigni craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Benigni's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Roberto Benigni is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Roberto Benigni that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Benigni's neediness often drives others away. When Roberto Benigni does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Benigni will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Roberto Benigni will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Roberto Benigni thinks big and is insatiably curious. He is interested in many fields, is talkative and a pleasant conversationalist. Kind, easy-going and optimistic, Benigni has good comprehension and excellent command of language.

In love relationships, Roberto Benigni seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Roberto, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Roberto Benigni supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Roberto that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Roberto Benigni is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Roberto Benigni very happy. Roberto wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Roberto Benigni may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Benigni is a natural host or diplomat.

He is romantic and amorous and has a well-developed sexual nature. Roberto expresses his feelings openly, but sometimes could feel hurt if people do not respond to him. Roberto Benigni also has a strong drive to express himself in artistic ways.

His association with those around he may have a depressing influence on Roberto Benigni causing him to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express himself emotionally, he is quite likely to become a loner.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mars

Venus Conjunct Saturn/Asc.