Jemima Khan
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Jemima Khan has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Khan is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.

Jemima Khan seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Khan tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Jemima's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Jemima Khan substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Jemima, and it is often difficult for her to share with others what she is feeling.

Jemima Khan frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of hers.

Khan identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Jemima has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Khan cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about meeting her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Jemima Khan and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Jemima Khan is apt to do more than her fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

In addition to Jemima's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Jemima Khan craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Khan rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Her childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Khan received was erratic and unreliable at best. Jemima Khan has had to move a lot, or Khan's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Jemima was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Jemima Khan may long for "normalcy" while at the same time she balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.

Jemima Khan often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Khan, both emotionally and physically.

She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Jemima Khan cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Khan's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Jemima at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Jemima Khan is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.

Jemima Khan may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Jemima desires.

Jemima is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Khan places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Jemima Khan feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Jemima Khan tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Khan may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Jemima Khan is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Jemima believes she has - is so important for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

When it comes to love relationships, Khan is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Jemima Khan has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Jemima acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Khan may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. Jemima Khan craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Khan, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Jemima Khan tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Khan resents authority and likes to be different. Jemima Khan may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 12th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Opposition Uranus

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 9th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Opposition Moon/Uranus