Janine Lindemulder in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Janine Lindemulder rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Lindemulder's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Lindemulder may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Janine difficult to live with. Janine Lindemulder needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Lindemulder depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Janine's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Janine Lindemulder may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.
Janine has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Janine Lindemulder, and she is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of her friends.
In love relationships, Janine Lindemulder seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Janine, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Janine Lindemulder supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Janine that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Janine Lindemulder is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Lindemulder is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Janine Lindemulder thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Janine Lindemulder puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Janine Lindemulder and she is not happy without a love partner. Lindemulder can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Janine Lindemulder shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Janine's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Janine Lindemulder also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Janine likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Lindemulder may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. Janine Lindemulder craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Lindemulder, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.
She may be subject to periodic changes of mood, is serious, somewhat somber, and she seems to lack confidence in herself and could have trouble giving of hers. Janine Lindemulder tends to avoid close relationships, expecting to be disappointed if she lets anyone come too close.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 7th house
Moon Opposition N. Node/Asc.
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Square Uranus
Venus Opposition Moon/Saturn
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