Jesse James
in Relationships

Jesse James responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. James often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Jesse James must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Jesse's need for times of withdrawal.

Jesse James is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Jesse James takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Jesse James has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Jesse sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Jesse James is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Jesse wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

Jesse James craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Jesse James to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to James. His domestic life may be very unstable - but James likes it that way.

Jesse has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Jesse James has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Jesse James undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Jesse's emotional life seems to be overly intense and his sexuality is very strong. Jesse James is likely to make many demands of his partner and he has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love him.

Jesse James possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Jesse James will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Jesse does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Jesse James wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Jesse James appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Jesse James and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Jesse shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes James happy.

Jesse James shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Jesse's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Jesse James also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Jesse likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

Jesse James is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Jesse is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Jesse James professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave James a lot of breathing space.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Conjunct Venus/Pluto

Venus in Libra

Venus in 4th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Opposition Uranus