Jack Lemmon
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Jack Lemmon inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Jack wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Lemmon lavishes on those he cares about. Jack Lemmon has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Jack Lemmon hates emotional games and dishonesty.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Jack Lemmon a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Jack's past are especially dear to him.

Jack Lemmon may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

Jack Lemmon often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Lemmon actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Jack Lemmon to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Jack Lemmon becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Lemmon can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

In addition to Jack's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Jack Lemmon craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Lemmon rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Jack Lemmon tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Jack Lemmon can create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Jack also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Jack Lemmon craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Jack Lemmon often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Jack Lemmon is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Jack Lemmon seems to have the wrong conception of the world around him and may suffer disappointments frequently. It is difficult for Jack to adapt himself and to acquire a community spirit, and he cannot achieve the inner understanding with others that he longs for.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Jack Lemmon values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Jack desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Lemmon, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Jack Lemmon appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Lemmon is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. Jack Lemmon prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Jack.

Jack is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes Jack Lemmon very popular.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Jack Lemmon puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Jack Lemmon and he is not happy without a love partner. Lemmon can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

His strong enthusiasm for life affects everyone around him. Jack Lemmon has a sense of well-being, a harmonious sex-life and he is likely to enjoy healthy and affectionate love relationships. Jack Lemmon also has a lot of creative ideas and could do well with some kind of craft projects.

His feelings are very powerful and Jack Lemmon expresses them vividly. His romantic relationships are likely to be very passionate and deep. Jack Lemmon has a tendency to go to extremes in love relationships and may be driven by inner compulsion rather than rational thinking.

He makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of him, which could cause Jack Lemmon to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to Lemmon, and he is inclined to change his ways just for the sake of love relationships.

He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Jack Lemmon is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Jack Lemmon tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool himself at times. His desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and he may tries to hide his deception from others as well as from himself.

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