Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson
approach to life and appearances

The following is a description of Ivy's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Ivy a little better. This page describes the disguise Jacobson wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.

Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson appears gentle and soft, and she acts rather reserved with others until she knows them well and feels it is safe to be open with them. Ivy has a strong need for emotional security and a sense of belonging, and is deeply attached to the past: her heritage, roots, family, cherished friends, familiar places, etc. Making radical changes or moves away from what is familiar and safe can be very painful and difficult for her. Jacobson tends to cling to people, memories and possessions of personal or sentimental significance. Having a home, a safe haven, is very important to Jacobson.

Jacobson approaches life emotionally and subjectively and she is sensitive to the emotional atmosphere, the subtle undercurrents of feeling in and around her. Instinctive and non-rational, Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson is often unable to give a clear, simple explanation for her actions. Something either feels right, or it does not.

Her emotions and personal loyalties tend to color Ivy's thoughts and opinions. She views life from a very personal perspective and often cannot mentally detach herself from her own personal bias and prejudices. She is apt to be concerned primarily with how something affects her and those dear and close to her, rather than with the principle or the broader social implications. For instance, she may be very patriotic and feel that whatever "my country" does is right without really knowing much about the other nation's policies or point of view. Simply put: if it is good for Ivy and her near and dear ones, then it is good. If it is not good for her and her near and dear ones, it is no good.

She is tenaciously loyal, protective, and supportive of those she cares about, and has a very strong nurturing, paternal nature. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson empathizes with others and intuitively senses the feelings and needs of other people. Compassionate and sympathetic, she is easily moved by others' pain, and Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson is often the one that others seek out when they need comfort, reassurance, or help.

Her moods fluctuate and change frequently and she is sometimes open and sometimes withdrawn emotionally. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson communicates nonverbally and appreciates a person who can pick up subtle cues and hints, rather than having to make everything explicit.

Ivy never forgets either kindness or unkindness shown to her.

Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson comes across as contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. She watches her step, and frequently withdraws if her environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Jacobson may seem much more conservative than she actually is. Ivy is wary of committing social blunders and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As she matures, Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson's confidence is likely to grow because she will learn to depend more on her own self-assessment..

Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson appears sympathetic and approachable. Because she uses her feelings and intuition to assess people, others sense that Jacobson understands their feelings or their personal situations. At the same time Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson really wants people to know how she feels, and their care and support are very important to her.

Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson comes across as liberal and open-minded. Anything new, innovative, unusual or off the beaten track arouses her interest. Jacobson infuses her environment with enthusiasm, new life and excitement. Though not intentionally disruptive, Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson does enjoy startling or waking people up a bit.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Cancer Rising

Saturn Square Asc.

Moon Trine Asc.

Uranus Trine Asc.