Although Helen Hayes appears aloof or self-sufficient at times (as described on the previous page), she is actually very interested in people and the social aspect of life. Helen has high standards for relationships, and she may not realize that it is more difficult for others to meet these standards than for her. Hayes believes that she merely expects a little courtesy and respect, however Helen Hayes actually becomes upset over rather minor oversights by her partner or friend.
Harmony and balance are her keynotes. Helen Hayes instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and she is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Helen does all she can to avoid conflict and discord. Her spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and she often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Hayes since she can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make her own decisions. Hayes will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. She prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on her own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Helen Hayes, and she has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Helen Hayes invests a great deal of her energy in personal love relationships and she is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Helen Hayes seeks a partner who is her equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. She makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and she enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Hayes perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Helen Hayes appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in her personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to her. If Helen Hayes fights about anything, it is often about something she feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Helen. She believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Helen Hayes also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Hayes dresses and furnishes her home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to her.
Ownership gives Helen Hayes a sense of security, and she has a strong attachment to her possessions. Helen also has a natural instinct or understanding of economics, finance, trade, and appraising the value of merchandise.
Helen Hayes deeply believes in her own power and her ability to survive any change and emerge victorious from any difficulty. Helen has tremendous inner resources and strength. Intense, strong willed, and zealous, she pursues her desires and goals with complete dedication and singleness of purpose, and she may be somewhat compulsive and even fanatical at times. Helen likes to live intensely and has no respect for people who are weak or avoid confronting life and their own destiny.
She is polite and gallant and makes a special effort to meet others half-way. Helen Hayes has the ability to give and receive love. Nurturing friendships, personal love relationships and social life is important to her.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Virgo and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 2nd house
Sun Trine Pluto
Sun Conjunct Venus/N. Node