challenges and difficulties
Mills is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Hayley Mills may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Hayley.
Hayley may be plagued by fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Hayley Mills is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Mills wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Hayley has an inner conflict between idealism, hope and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression due to limitations and practical realities. Hayley Mills needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve her aspirations. Mills will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
Her physical vitality and mental energy tend to be somewhat low. For this reason Hayley Mills should try to avoid any unnecessary emotional and physical stress and maintain good health habits in order to enhance her resistance to illness.
Her outlook on life is inclined to be somewhat negative and Hayley Mills tries to avoid relationships and social interaction as much as possible. There is a morose side to Hayley's nature that makes her feel that no one cares about her, that life is difficult and perhaps not even worthwhile.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Hayley Mills instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Hayley Mills needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Hayley Mills needs to take what she has learned (either through formal education or her own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Hayley's quality of life or that of persons in her world, is of little real value. Putting Mills' understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in her daily relationships, and in the multiple choices she makes every day, will enable Hayley Mills to really test her belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Hayley Mills is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Hayley Mills needs to cultivate her ability to live in the present!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Hayley Mills to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Hayley Mills has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
Hayley has an extremely magnetic personality along with strong sexual attraction. Hayley Mills tends to put her heart and soul into her work and may prefer to work with partners of the opposite sex.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 8th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Sun/MC
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Mars