challenges and difficulties
Harry Meyen takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Harry enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Harry Meyen also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Meyen is generally not a "joiner" and he does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Harry Meyen does participate in a group, he may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or he may simply feel that he does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Harry Meyen better than being with groups of his own peers.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Harry Meyen instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Harry Meyen needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Harry Meyen's path lies in his development as an individual, the discovery of his own strengths and joys, the capacity to express his uniqueness and to stand out in a crowd. This involves becoming a leader, even though Meyen's instinct is actually to be "one of the Indians" rather than the "chief". When under stress Harry Meyen is apt to seek safety in numbers, to go along with the group. Also, he may believe that striving to do his personal best and to excel is wrong or selfish, but Harry should let go of this notion. Finding his own center and doing what gives him delight and energy is the most worthwhile contribution Harry Meyen can offer the world at large.
It is in fostering a personal vision or philosophy of life, whether through religious or philosophical studies, education or the wisdom of distant lands or cultures that Harry Meyen is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Harry Meyen needs to cultivate the qualities described above in this endeavor. Long distance communication and involvement with foreigners is likely to be significant to Meyen.
The following are specific activities that will support Harry Meyen in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Meyen, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Harry Meyen should become more aware of the spiritual side of life and its underlying unity by getting involved in charitable activities and opening up his psychic channels. Meditation that develops Meyen's intuitive abilities, as well as learning about the unseen side of life through his own dream experiences or altered states of awareness, can be important steps in Harry's path.
Moreover, musical and artistic or imaginative endeavors will be important to him.
Harry Meyen thinks of others before he thinks of himself and is always ready to lend a helping hand. He is deeply concerned with the community he lives in, loves his family and relatives and has a strong need to maintain close relationships with them.
He is very social, loves artistic events and entertainment, and has the ability to show his feelings without reservation. Harry Meyen probably found joy in learning things early in life and he stays close to his family and other relations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 11th house
N. Node in Leo
N. Node in 9th house
N. Node Conjunct Neptune
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Venus
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Venus