approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Harry's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Harry Meyen comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Harry Meyen - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Harry Meyen" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Harry a little better. This page describes the disguise Meyen wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is very strong-willed and proud, but intensely private and not easy to know well. Behind Meyen's quiet exterior lies a great deal of emotional depth, sensitivity, complexity, and also fierce determination. When Harry Meyen wants something he goes after it rather quietly but insistently and wholeheartedly - and what Harry Meyen wants, Harry Meyen usually gets.
He is not a person who lives haphazardly or superficially. Harry wants to live passionately and intensely and is not averse to challenge, danger, or to facing the darker side of life - human pain and struggle. Harry Meyen functions well in crisis situations and he often seeks them out, for he enjoys the feeling of living at full capacity.
He is very intuitive about other people and especially about their unspoken feelings and hidden motives. Harry Meyen usually has strong, immediate gut reactions, either positive or negative, which prove to be correct. Meyen approaches life very instinctively and is not always fully conscious of why he feels or acts the way he does. Harry Meyen also has a very strong affinity with animals - an acute sensitivity and a nonverbal rapport with them.
In new relationships he is rather cautious, sometimes even suspicious, until he gets to know and trust someone - and trust does not come easily to Meyen. When Harry Meyen commits himself emotionally to someone, be it friend or lover, he is intensely loyal and devoted to them and he also expects the same kind of unwavering, undying loyalty in return. If he is ever betrayed by someone he cares deeply for, Harry Meyen is capable of hating and retaliating with as much fervor as he once loved. Nothing is done halfway. In fact, he is intensely involved and often jealously attached to whatever he cares about, be it person, idea, or cause. There is definitely a streak of emotional fanaticism in him.
Because of his natural reserve, others may see Harry Meyen as something of an enigma. He is quite self-protective and often defensive. Harry Meyen also has a very magnetic quality, especially to members of the opposite sex.
Harry Meyen is extremely sensitive to all the impressions and energies around him and at times can be overcome or dominated by more forceful personalities. Learning to establish clear boundaries is important for him, as Harry Meyen tends to become enmeshed emotionally and/or psychically with whomever he is with. He may have the chameleon's trait of appearing to become the people or person he is with the most.
Harry Meyen comes across as liberal and open-minded. Anything new, innovative, unusual or off the beaten track arouses his interest. Meyen infuses his environment with enthusiasm, new life and excitement. Though not intentionally disruptive, Harry Meyen does enjoy startling or waking people up a bit.
There is a certain intensity, charisma or compelling attractiveness about Harry Meyen that may have little to do with his physical features. It is energy, a subtle sexuality that he emanates. Moreover, Meyen tends to do everything wholeheartedly and with passion, which is quite fascinating to other people. His instincts and psychological perceptions about others are quite incisive.
He is likely to live in an unusual or somewhat restless environment. Harry Meyen needs his freedom and may be a bit inconsiderate and combative toward others at times. Harry has a strong desire to exceed his limits, even if it means having to use force.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Neptune Square Asc.
Uranus Trine Asc.
Pluto Trine Asc.
Asc. Opposition Uranus/Pluto