Though Stefani may seem breezy, independent and freedom loving (as mentioned in the previous chapter), she is in fact not completely happy without a partner. She enjoys being on the move and exploring new territory, but wants a traveling companion! Stefani yearns for fulfilling, yet non-restricting relationships.
Harmony and balance are her keynotes. Gwen Stefani instinctively understands the need to accommodate other people's interests and desires, and she is always fair and willing to meet others half way. Tactful, diplomatic, and quite socially aware, Gwen does all she can to avoid conflict and discord. Her spirit is one of cooperation and compromise, and she often achieves through charm and discretion what would have been impossible to achieve with a direct, forceful approach.
Getting along with and pleasing others may be too important to Stefani since she can be too dependent on the approval and opinions of other to make her own decisions. Stefani will rarely act without seeking the counsel and feedback of other people. She prefers sharing and doing things with others rather than on her own. Being alone feels very unnatural to Gwen Stefani, and she has a strong need for a partner and intimate one-on-one relationships.
Gwen Stefani invests a great deal of her energy in personal love relationships and she is very idealistic and romantic about marriage. Gwen Stefani seeks a partner who is her equal intellectually, and who is capable of a mental relationship as well as a physical and emotional one. She makes a thoughtful, considerate friend or lover, and she enjoys the traditional symbols of love - courtship, flowers, etc. Stefani perceives relationships like an art that requires time, attention and creative effort. Gwen Stefani appreciates a partner who is subtle and polished, never coarse or blunt.
Fairness and equality, both in her personal relationships and in the world, are extremely important to her. If Gwen Stefani fights about anything, it is often about something she feels is unfair and unbalanced. Balance is very important to Gwen. She believes in moderation in all things and avoids fanaticism and extremism at all costs.
Gwen Stefani also has a strong need for beautiful, harmonious surroundings and a natural sense of artistic style and grace, which is reflected in the way Stefani dresses and furnishes her home and workspace. Everything must be aesthetically pleasing and appropriate. Working with people as a counselor, advisor, consultant, or negotiator, or in an artistic field such as design or photography would be fulfilling to her.
Her career, reputation, and public image are very important to Stefani. Gwen Stefani has a strong desire to be influential or make her mark on the world. The merely personal sphere does not satisfy her; her ambitions include making a major contribution and receiving broad recognition for her unique effort and gifts. Gwen Stefani may undervalue the personal or inner side of life.
Gwen Stefani often feels that she is at cross purposes with herself, for her conscious intentions and desires conflict with her subconscious emotional needs and drives. She is torn in two different directions. Gwen has difficulty satisfying both her need to be an individual and her need for caring relationships and a sense of belonging. Moreover, Gwen sends out mixed messages so people do not always know how to respond to her or what Gwen really wants, thereby creating confusion or conflict in close relationships.
She is direct, energetic, sometimes aggressive and combative. Gwen Stefani often feels that she needs to fight to get what she wants, and she tends to have a "me-first" attitude that angers or irritates others. She is hasty, restless, impatient and sometimes reckless.
She is blessed with abundant optimism, self-confidence and cheerful generosity. Her good will and friendliness win her many allies. Gwen Stefani also has grand visions and aspirations, and the desire to succeed in life in a big way. Gwen expects the best, and usually gets it.
Innovative, original, unorthodox and unconventional, she identifies with the role of a rebel, reformer or iconoclast. Gwen Stefani insists upon a great deal of personal freedom and does not easily adapt to others' needs and wishes. Gwen needs a lifestyle that allows her to be spontaneous. She often feels that she is somehow different from other people and outside of society's mainstream.
She is strong-willed, forceful and independent. Stefani knows what she wants, but sometimes may act too impulsively, causing quarrels or disagreement with others. Gwen Stefani tends to judge herself and others quite severely, but she is very sincere, honest and trustworthy.
Her comprehension is exceptional and Gwen Stefani reacts to everything very quickly. Stefani shows deep respect for knowledge and feels that she must learn everything there is to know. Studying probably was encouraged early on and Gwen Stefani was raised to be successful.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Ascendant in Sagittarius and Sun in Libra
Sun in Libra
Sun in 10th house
Sun Square Moon
Sun Square Mars
Sun Conjunct Jupiter
Sun Conjunct Uranus
Sun Conjunct Moon/Mars
Sun Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus