challenges and difficulties
Stefani either overvalues or undervalues her possessions and assets. She can also go to extremes in dealing with bodily needs and desires, being either hedonistic or ascetic. Gwen Stefani may deny herself sensual pleasure and enjoyment of the fruits of her labors. She may also be stingy and unable to give freely. Many times Gwen Stefani feels that she does not have "enough" to make her feel secure, regardless of how much (money, insurance, etc.) she has!
It may be difficult for Gwen Stefani to play spontaneously or just let her hair down, for she tends to inhibit that side of her by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression she is making.
Gwen may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for she wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged, and recognized as special in some way. Though she may indeed be outstanding, Gwen Stefani also needs to learn to relax and enjoy herself more.
The side of Gwen Stefani that wants and needs structure, order, stability, and a disciplined way of life is at odds with her urges for unfettered freedom, change, excitement, and discovery. There is apt to be much discontent, inner stress, and tension due to this, and at times Gwen finds it hard to relax. Gwen Stefani may act out in a rebellious way now and then, or clamp down hard on herself, in an attempt to strictly control her "wild" impulses. Stefani's task is to try to find a reasonable balance between order and creative chaos in her life.
She is inclined to be somewhat withdrawn and has a hard time discussing important matters with her family and close relationships. A serious and deep thinker, Gwen Stefani would like to explain her views to others, but has a difficult time finding the right words.
Lacking confidence in herself, Gwen Stefani has the feeling that her luck has abandoned her. She is inclined to sit and wait for the right opportunities to come along, placing too much emphasis on wishful thinking and is disappointed when nothing happens.
Gwen tries to build her life on solid ground, but may find it difficult to move forward, because she always tends to look back. This could result in feelings of inferiority and periodic moods of depression.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Gwen Stefani instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Gwen Stefani needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Stefani's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Gwen Stefani has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Gwen Stefani is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Stefani's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Gwen Stefani back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Staying in relationships with domineering, controlling, abusive people or being manipulative. Gwen sometimes abuses her own power to use others to her own selfish ends.
She may have the feeling that she constantly has to surrender to the wishes of other people and she gives the impression of having a passive or indifferent role in her relationships. Gwen Stefani never takes the initiative and depends on the support of groups she is affiliated with.
She is very social, loves artistic events and entertainment, and has the ability to show her feelings without reservation. Gwen Stefani probably found joy in learning things early in life and she keeps in close relationships with her family and other relations.
Gwen Stefani has a very affectionate attitude toward others and the capacity to love a lot of people. There probably is a very deep bond between Gwen and her friends, and when she falls in love, Gwen Stefani is likely to love just as deeply.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Taurus
Saturn in 5th house
Saturn Quincunx Uranus
Saturn Opposition Mercury/Asc.
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
Saturn Opposition Asc./MC
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Pluto
N. Node Opposition Moon/Neptune
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Venus
N. Node Opposition Venus/MC