challenges and difficulties
Allen both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting herself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Gracie, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Gracie Allen is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Allen.
Gracie Allen has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life which colors everything she does. Caution and realism are her virtues though Gracie limits herself at times by being too careful, shy, or fearful, and not believing in herself enough or being assertive when necessary. Others find Gracie Allen difficult to get to know intimately, as Allen tends to distance herself from them or to put forth a rather stern, "adult" face to the world.
Gracie should take care not to trust others too blindly. Some of her friends or associates may be untruthful and try to deceive her, resulting in great disappointments or even losses for Allen.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Gracie Allen instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Gracie Allen needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Allen's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Gracie Allen has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
The arena she is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Gracie Allen should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials she feels she possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Gracie Allen back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
The tendency for self-indulgence, laziness, and over-reliance on the generosity or affection of others, as well as making love relationships, social life and superficial pleasures more important than anything else in her life.
Gracie Allen has a very obliging manner and is always in search for new relationships. She is able to identify with people quite easily and probably will make many friends who can be of help to her.
She is very obliging and always looks for relationships with other people. Gracie Allen tends to feel really at home with her family or in groups or associations that she may join. Gracie has a strong desire to feel at one with her community.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Opposition Neptune/N. Node
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Venus
N. Node Opposition Sun/Asc.
N. Node Opposition Asc./MC