Aldous Huxley
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Aldous Huxley has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Huxley is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Aldous Huxley seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Huxley tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Aldous' well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Aldous Huxley substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Huxley depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Aldous' life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Aldous Huxley may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Huxley received was erratic and unreliable at best. Aldous Huxley has had to move a lot, or Huxley's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Aldous was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Aldous Huxley may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.

Aldous Huxley often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Huxley, both emotionally and physically.

Sensitive and sentimental, Aldous Huxley is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Huxley to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Aldous Huxley seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Aldous likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Aldous is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Huxley places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Aldous Huxley feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Aldous' nature and Aldous Huxley feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Huxley. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Aldous Huxley has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 7th house

Moon Opposition Uranus

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter