Gerard Malanga
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Gerard Malanga rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Malanga's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Malanga may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Gerard difficult to live with. Gerard Malanga needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Gerard, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.

Gerard Malanga frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.

Malanga identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Gerard Malanga has a cheering effect on those around him. Gerard likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to his emotional well-being.

Gerard has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Gerard Malanga and he may have an early desire for marriage.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Gerard Malanga enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Gerard wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Gerard Malanga craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Gerard loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Malanga.

It is absolutely essential for Gerard Malanga not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Gerard tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Gerard Malanga will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 12th house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon Opposition Venus/Mars

Venus in Aries

Venus in 8th house

Venus Quincunx Neptune