challenges and difficulties
Montgomery is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, George Montgomery may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for George.
He is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with his duty, his public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. George Montgomery understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and he is capable of much self-discipline and patience once he sets his sights on a goal.
But George Montgomery is very judgmental and hard on himself if he fails to attain success, and he can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize his efforts.
Basically shy, Montgomery tends to be somewhat inhibited in love relationships and may feel uncomfortable or awkward expressing his love for someone. George Montgomery longs for love relationships and dreams about love, but is also inclined to torment himself because of a seeming lack of affection.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which George Montgomery instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction George Montgomery needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
George Montgomery has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that he is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, George Montgomery needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, he has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, he may encourage others to depend on him emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. George Montgomery needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Montgomery's inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. George Montgomery needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold George Montgomery back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
George Montgomery's rigid self-control overly restricts his ability to freely express himself or explore possibilities. He is excessively concerned with work, duty and security. He tends to be fearful, judgmental towards himself or others, and can feel alone and cut off from sources of nourishment outside himself. George Montgomery should try to learn to relax and recognize that not everything is Montgomery's responsibility.
Escapism through fantasy, intoxicants, or passive, vicarious activities (television, movies, etc.), waiting for a miracle instead of taking constructive steps to help himself, aimlessness or an inability to make and keep commitments, and self deception regarding other people. George has a tendency to be a martyr.
He is highly emotional and tends to display his feelings in a theatrical way. George Montgomery seems to enjoy being somewhat eccentric and finds it difficult to adapt himself to others. Although he may seek emotional fulfillment, George does not do well in relationships and teamwork surroundings.
Montgomery is able to cooperate with people harmoniously, and others see him as a welcome comrade. George likes to work hand-in-hand with everyone and has excellent teamwork ability.
Montgomery is somewhat shy and tends to feel inferior when he is with others. George Montgomery is inclined to establish relationships with weak or sick people and is always willing to help or take care of them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 10th house
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Neptune
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Saturn
N. Node Opposition Neptune
N. Node Opposition Moon/Pluto
N. Node Opposition Mars/Jupiter
N. Node Opposition Saturn/Neptune