challenges and difficulties
He is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing himself freely and openly is not easy for Aubry. Gabriel Aubry tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of his "performance" is an important task for Gabriel.
His childhood or his relationship with his parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Gabriel from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Gabriel Aubry feels that he was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether he actually was or not. His early life - at least as Aubry remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of his needs and feelings. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Gabriel Aubry needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Gabriel accomplish this task.
Gabriel may find it difficult to express himself, thereby feeling inhibited and lonely at times. He tends to isolate himself from others and his relationships come across as strained. Conditions in Gabriel Aubry's parental home may be oppressive and strained.
His emotional life is likely to be somewhat strained and he has a tendency toward pessimism. Gabriel Aubry may not feel as close in his relationships to his loved ones as he would like to, and Gabriel may find it difficult to give and receive love.
He may frequently feel hindered or oppressed by other people and may suddenly join forces with others in order to overcome difficulties. Gabriel Aubry seems to be afraid of his own courage and may find it hard to express his desires.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Gabriel Aubry instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Gabriel Aubry needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
He is capable of withstanding outside influences and remaining constant and steady on his path, but when under stress Gabriel Aubry becomes downright obstinate and implacable, resisting any change no matter how necessary or desirable the change may be. Tenaciously trying to preserve the status quo and hold on to what he has, he is apt to ignore the subtle signals he receives about needing to do something differently, which often leads to a crisis.
Gabriel Aubry needs to learn the limits of his ability to control life, and to accept and even embrace change and loss of the familiar, in order to allow for new life and growth. "Letting go" is a major life lesson for him. Aubry also needs to develop a balanced attitude toward his appetites and desires, as Gabriel Aubry tends to overindulge and/or deny himself excessively.
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Gabriel Aubry to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Gabriel Aubry has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
His feelings are heightened when he is with others and Gabriel Aubry has the ability to open up to them and show his feelings without reservation. Gabriel Aubry is led by his instincts and likely to have many spontaneous relationships with other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Opposition Sun/Moon
Saturn Opposition Moon/MC
Saturn Opposition Uranus/Asc.
N. Node in Scorpio
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Venus/Uranus