challenges and difficulties
Frank Westmore takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Frank enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Frank Westmore also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Frank Westmore has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Frank limits himself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in himself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Frank Westmore difficult to get to know intimately, as Westmore tends to distance himself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
The side of Frank Westmore that wants and needs structure, order, stability, and a disciplined way of life is at odds with his urges for unfettered freedom, change, excitement, and discovery. There is apt to be much discontent, inner stress, and tension as a result, and at times Frank finds it hard to relax. Frank Westmore may act out in a rebellious way now and then, or clamp down hard on himself, in an attempt to strictly control his "wild" impulses. Westmore's task is to try to find a reasonable balance between order and creative chaos in his life.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Frank Westmore instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Frank Westmore needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
His natural instinct, especially when under stress, is to passively go along with whatever is easiest, refrain from clearly analyzing or assessing his situation and perhaps even try to escape from seeing his situation clearly by indulging in fantasies, intoxicants, and the like. Dreaminess and impracticality, being unfocused and undefined (at least in certain areas) are ways Frank Westmore copes with stress. Frank Westmore also has trouble setting limits and saying no.
His development path lies in cultivating discrimination and clarity, becoming more precise, and developing technical and practical skills that will enable Frank Westmore to function more efficiently in the world. Finding a way to be of practical service is also important.
It is deep within himself, as Frank Westmore faces his own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of his life that Frank Westmore keeps hidden from public view where he is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Frank Westmore back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Frank Westmore seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 1st house
Saturn Quincunx Uranus
N. Node in Virgo
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Opposition Uranus